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Discussed in the Video...

About Orgasms with Dr. Amy Brenner, MD, FACOG

1. Medications that may interfere
2. Surgical causes of problems with orgasm
3. Why gynecologists may avoid talking about sex.
4. The best treatments for depression that won’t interfere with orgasm
5. Does hysterectomy interfere with orgasm.
6. Medical causes of problems with orgasm.

Transcript...

Dr. Amy Brenner, MD, FACOG Talks About Orgasm

Charles Runels: So I'm honored to be talking with Dr. Amy Brenner, who's an amazing gynecologist whom I met about a year ago, coming up on a year. She lectures around the world. She is stationed ... Or her office is based near Cincinnati. Tell us about your practice and then let's ... You know, this whole interview we're celebrating Orgasm Day. But before we get to that, just tell us more about you and your practice.

Dr. Amy Brenner: Sure. I've been a practicing gynecologist for 15 years and about five years ago, I decided to focus on gynecology. I still practice traditional gynecology and do surgery and have a large hormone practice with bioidentical hormones and medi-spa and currently cool flow team and we use functional medicine and started offering PRP procedures such as the O-shot and P-shot and the empire procedure, about a year ago.

Charles Runels: Beautiful. And you have physicians working there with you right? I just want people to understand that you're a hard core gynecologist. You have a new surgeon gynecologist working with you, you have a family practitioner physician who helps you with some of the hormone part of your practice, plus you have... Tell me more about what goes on in your office. I want people to understand how busy you are.

Dr. Amy Brenner: Sure. Well, busy place. There's about 45 people that come to work every day. I have a gynecologist who also did additional training in GYN surgery and then a fellowship in minimally invasive gynecology. I have a family practice physician who also does aesthetics and focuses on integrated medicine and bioidentical hormones. Then four nurse practitioners that do the routine GYN care and pap smears and FPD management and just typical gynecology and their main focus is also on hormones as well. Then we have three aestheticians and two wellness counselors.

Charles Runels: That's just amazing. Now that people understand that this is not... you're not just someone who read about orgasms yesterday, and you have literally thousands of women who come through your office and you have... I mean most people if they had 45 cars in their parking lot that would be a busy day, that's just your staff. So I have a lot of respect for your ideas and your experience in gynecology and I know you came and I shared some ideas about the O-shot and that's worked well for you. But before we talk about that, just talk with me about orgasms in general. Maybe, let's start with why you think they might be important or maybe they're not important. Just what do you hear women say about orgasms?

Dr. Amy Brenner: Sure. I mean being a gynecologist for 15 years, I'll be honest, up until about five years ago, when people would talk to me about their problems with libido or just any sexual problems, my only answer was you should go on a date with your husband. That's all I had in my toolbox. I know traditional gynecologists still feel like that and maybe think that [Addie 00:03:38] is their only alternative. About five years ago when I started with hormones, women came out of the woodwork which is why I feel like we've been so successful in such a short period of time, in Cincinnati, of doing something that really not a lot of people were doing. I've heard it over and over that people say that their sex life now is better at 40 from the tools that we've been able to give them from before.

Issues with libido and sexuality is something that me personally seeing patients here at least 10 times a day. So multiply that by seven providers and that's a lot of women who are talking about issues with sexuality on a daily basis.

Charles Runels: Talk more about, because as you know I did research in that area as well, and it always surprised me how many women would come to me and say, "Well, the doctor told me all hormones are normal." And they would've come from a very expert, well respected gynecologist, but who just thought a little bit differently about how to measure acute hormones. I don't think I was smarter than somebody, but as you know there's different schools of thought. Tell me, does that happen in your office with new patients and what's the difference between thinking the way you do now and the way you thought say six, or seven, eight years ago?

Dr. Amy Brenner: So first of all, that conversation happens every day, which is again, why I think we have a lot of patients because we don't feel like that. We hear all the time, "My doctor said that I'm fine and there's nothing to do."

Charles Runels: Yes.

Dr. Amy Brenner: That's what I used to tell people too. I think it's because in OB/GYN there's a lot of education going on by drug reps rather than doctors seeking out their own answers. Up until five years ago I didn't think there was a problem with birth control pills of SSRIs or sleeping pills, let alone what it does to your sex life.

Charles Runels: So talk to me... back to the sex part and the orgasm part, before we get into the details of the way you think about the hormones, the different medicines, because you just mentioned SSRIs, which to interpret for some of our people, so you're referring to some of the anti-depressants. Before we get into the details, tell me more about some of the things that you hear women tell you about how orgasm problems, however you want to define that, interfere with their life. Either difficulty having one or can't have one.

Dr. Amy Brenner: Well, I think just women's sex life and their libido and their relationship with their significant other is a huge part of their relationship. I hear from patients who's life goes better when their sex life is better. They get along better with their significant other, just life is better when people are having good sex.

Charles Runels: Isn't that interesting. I have people tell me that they're not as... they sleep better, they think better, their work goes better. Do you hear those things? Can you elaborate on that or am I making that up?

Dr. Amy Brenner: I think that the patients that are coming in, it's more of the negatives of things aren't as good because I'm not having good sex. Or I don't want to have sex or sex is painful. It can create controversy in a marriage. It can create disappointment and frustration. I'm hearing more of the these are the negative things than that type of thing, of what's missing and please help me because it's not good.

Charles Runels: And then after they get well, what do these women tell you that's different about their life?

Dr. Amy Brenner: They may tell me I'm the best doctor ever.

Charles Runels: Because what's happening in their life. I know they love you.

Dr. Amy Brenner: Because we helped them and we're willing to look outside of the box when their other doctor may have said that's just part of getting old and that's just how it is.

Charles Runels: So when you say you helped them, specifically, what do they say is better about their life because their sex is better? I think you sort of said it already with relationships, but can you expand on that? Can you think of a story of someone, something someone told you about what happened with their life?

Dr. Amy Brenner: Well, I think I told you about this one patient that always comes to mind of... as a couple, I treated both the husband and the wife. Her exact words were, "You're the only person that's helped me. I haven't had good sex and we've basically had a sex-less marriage just until you helped me because I was having pain with sex and it became this vicious circle of I had pain and I didn't want to have sex and it didn't feel good so I never did it. And it created emotional distance with my husband." With some things we did with hormones and the O-shot for her and the P-shot for him, basically they rekindled things and things were better than ever.

Charles Runels: So when you say rekindled, tell me more what that looks like in their house. What did it look like?

Dr. Amy Brenner: Well I guess for them it's not really rekindled, it was just started to begin with, because she basically said they had a sex-less marriage because of issues with pain.

Charles Runels: So now they're having intimacy and they're happier together.

Dr. Amy Brenner: Going to Cancun with just the two of them.

Charles Runels: Oh fun.

Dr. Amy Brenner: You know the story.

Charles Runels: That sounds happy. That's rewarding isn't it? Tell me about, if a woman were to say to you, or if a woman were to say to another woman, because I see this on the blogs a lot, shouldn't worry about that because you're just trying to please your husband. What would you say to that? You're just trying to please a man. It shouldn't bother you that you can't have an orgasm. You should just be happy. And, let's face it, there becomes this thing-- one of my favorite stories is the Velveteen Rabbit. So, you reach this place where you're 100 years old or you're 80 years old or something, although people have sex at that age, but you can reach a place where a love relationship goes without sex. On the other hand, the five-year giving up, was you see it on the blogs and you hear women tell other women, even some therapists telling women that you shouldn't worry about it because you're just trying to please a man. If you're happy without sex, just be happy. Does that resonate or am I just making that up? You ever see those comments on the blogs?

Dr. Brenner: I guess-- I don't know. In my practice, I'm not really seeing that--

Dr. Runels: I know it's not the way you think but I see it in some of the sex therapist comments.

Dr. Brenner: Yeah, I would say that, that's not what I'm seeing from my patients. My patients want to have good sex. So I'm not really seeing--

Dr. Runels: For their own self.

Speaker 2: -- that.

Dr. Runels: That's what I'm looking for.

Speaker 2: And if they were saying that, I would say that there's a lot of health benefits to having an orgasm a day. I think I heard somewhere that you should have an orgasm a day to keep the doctor away rather than an apple a day. So--

Dr. Runels: Yeah, I do think it helps mental health. Well, I know there is this idea in my feeling from what I've been able to observe in people have been together a long time, often times, the man wants the woman to be well just because he loves her and she doesn't feel whole. Not to please him, but she wants her body to function. And so I know that's the way you think but I see some judgment going sometimes against women who are trying to make things better.

So anyway, so let's talk about if you were talking to a woman who wanted orgasms to be better or just can't have an orgasm and you were looking at her medications for things that might be throwing her off, what medicines would you be very suspicious could be causing the problem? And, again, I don't want anybody stopping their medicine just for watching this video, but yet they maybe haven't asked for a physician about changing something and this could prompt them to ask their doctor when they go. So what medicines would you worry about interfering with sex?

Speaker 2: The two most common things are anti-depressants. I find it really hard for women to have a good sexual experience for either from libido or orgasms when people are taking anti-depressants. And so I think there's a lot of other options that can help with mood other than anti-depressants. So in our practice, [inaudible 00:12:53] can start talking about what we're going to do to treat people. I like to get people to talk about other alternatives to anti-depressants. And then the other are synthetic hormones like birth control pills or synthetic progestins.

Dr. Runels: Yes. So birth control pills are going to drop testosterone levels, right? Which are going to, even in a young woman. It's not a [inaudible 00:13:17]. It's just a thing that will happen. It's going to drop because that's how it works, right? So there's this feedback loop to drop [inaudible 00:13:25] testosterone falls, and so that is the thing that will happen and has an effect on women and we know it's a thing that's going to happen. So that's going to affect the libido. Tell me, so if you had an anti-depressant, which anti-depressant would you think would be least likely to interfere? So if someone's takin an anti-depressant--

Speaker 2: If someone has to take an anti-depressant, we like to switch them over to Wellbutrin.

Dr. Runels: Yes. Yeah, I never asked you that question before so I was seeing if you could [inaudible 00:13:56] it. Absolutely. It's the one that is least likely to interfere [inaudible 00:14:01]. Of course testosterone can act as an [inaudible 00:14:04] as a-- it helps depression when you correct low levels. So you know, I just wanted to--

Speaker 2: The next couple of other ones, like if somebody's taking chronic pain pills I think that can suppress testosterone and or things like tamoxifen if somebody has had breast cancer, or-- those are some other things that can negatively affect.

Dr. Runels: Yeah. So the narcotics populates the [inaudible 00:14:33]so there is less stimulation to make testosterone as well. So let's say that they have their medicines with them. You've gotten them the best you can get them. Tell me some other things that you would do to improve orgasms as a physician. I don't want to discount, we both realize that relationships, sex therapy, family therapy can be extremely huge. And is much underused, but still thinking as a physician with procedures and medicines at your disposal, what other ideas would you have to make things better? So you have testosterone, what else?

Speaker 2: So first I just want to look at other things in their medical history, like other physical or anatomical things that could interfere with orgasm or stimulation or things like that. So anything that causes atrophy or loss of estrogen in the vagina and vulva can make sex painful and painful is certainly not enjoyable. So any kind of hormone deficiency that can cause atrophy or any kind of scarring in the vagina either from prior procedures, hysterectomy, child birth, or even other medical problems that can cause scarring in the vulva, lichen sclerosus or other more rare skin diseases that can interfere with the anatomy and--

Dr. Runels: So you, along those lines, you've treated some of these painful conditions with the O Shot is that correct or no?

Speaker 2: That is correct. Or no?

Dr. Runels: So tell us some stories, tell us what you've seen. How do you think it might be healthy? Explain it as a scientist, what you've seen and what you think has happened when you've done this?

Speaker 2: So I'll just tell you about our most recent lichen sclerosus patient, who had decades of itching, and vulvar pain, and she periodically used a topical steroid, and I think periodically is she didn't find it was really helpful so she wasn't really compliant with it because she really didn't notice that it made a big difference for her.

Dr. Runels: Let me stop you for just a second right there. I just want people to stop and think about that for a second. A decade of itching, and burning, and an uncomfortable genitalia. Just stop and think about how miserable, I mean I would be angry. I can tell you as a child I used to always get chiggers because I live in the south where it's like being in the swamp. We played in the forest and my little genitals would just be swollen and scratchy and it was just the most miserable, miserable thing, and so the last thing that someone like that would want to do is have sexual relations and it's horrible isn't it? So tell me, so you're thinking of a particular person who had this [inaudible 00:17:59]for a decade. I'm sorry, so I just wanted people think about that.

Speaker 2: Yeah. Most women can relate to having a yeast infection, that's miserable and you usually have that for a day before you get cured.

Dr. Runels: Yeah.

Speaker 2: So this was feeling like that every day, so she wasn't looking to make her sex life better, she just wanted-- that wasn't even part of the discussion. She just wanted not to be itchy and in pain every day, so, but when I talked to her about sex, no, I don't even think like that. So recently I treated her with the O Shot and PRP to the vulva and within a month she's not itchy anymore.

Dr. Runels: Oh wow, that's so beautiful, and you know we just. I think I've told you already, but last week we had our research paper that was accepted by the Journal for the American Academy of Dermatology, so that will be out this year. Probably within a month or so, so I'm excited about that. About lichen sclerosus, so hopefully more people will know how to do what you're doing, and we've talked about you and you're at such an expert level and so busy, you haven't had time, but I'm hoping you can give a speech to [inaudible 00:19:20]. I see you as being an excellent teacher. So tell me more about, have you treated anyone who had scarring from childbirth or from surgical procedures with the O Shot or not?

Speaker 2: You know, just that couple I was telling you is, she just had a long history of just painful sex that we didn't really have a good anatomical reason why. She didn't have atrophy, she didn't have a cirrhosis, she never had a hysterectomy, but she had pain and it did get better for her.

Dr. Runels: What did that do for her? Is she married?

Dr. Amy Brenner: Yeah, that's the lady I told you about that's now going on to Mexico.

Dr. Runels: Oh, that's going to Cancun. Isn't that wonderful?

Dr. Brenner: Yeah.

Dr. Runels: I've had several of our doctors tell me, because we've both with life and death sort of situations. Not sort of. Truly. You're a surgeon. [inaudible 00:20:21] Delivering a child can be life and death, but bad things happen and [inaudible 00:20:26] for 12 years, but I have found that patching up these relationships and giving people their sexuality back is as rewarding or more so than anything I've ever done in medicine. Are you feeling that, or am I making that up for [inaudible 00:20:40]? I mean, do you find that very rewarding?

Amy Brenner: No, [inaudible 00:20:45] when you bring couples back together sexually.

Dr. Runels: It's wonderful, isn't it?

Amy Brenner: It just makes their relationship better, it makes their [inaudible 00:20:55] better, and when it's broken it's just not the same.

Dr. Runels: Yeah. All right, so another thing I want to talk with you as a scientist. So there is still a debate about whether female ejaculation is a thing or not. Actually, when I went to medical school, I was there at UAB in Birmingham and we'd had a two month class on sex, and guess what the first day was shown to us? A movie of a woman ejaculate, and our teacher who was a Ph.D. teaching our class said, "I do not want anyone leaving this medical school thinking that female ejaculation is not a reality."

I didn't really think that much about it, but since we've been doing the O-Shot, I've had more women tell me they're experiencing it, written about it, thought more deeply about it actually before the O-Shot [inaudible 00:21:51]. Tell me what you think. First of all, is it a thing? Second of all, is it a thing, what do you think is causing it, and do you think the shot makes it more likely to happen? I mean, talk to me. I mean, I know that's sort of a ... Maybe you don't want to talk about it, but because it's getting ...

Okay, let me stop right here. Let's change the subject for just a second. Do you know any gynecologists that do not want to talk about sex?

Amy Brenner: That do not want to talk about sex? Most gynecologists [crosstalk 00:22:24] [inaudible 00:22:26].

Dr. Runels: Yeah, it's most of them. Yeah, I was setting you up for that.

Amy Brenner: Because they don't know what to do about it, so ...

Dr. Runels: Most of them don't want to talk about it, do they?

Amy Brenner: No.

Dr. Runels: And so I want to brag on you for now for just a second, because I can tell that question is getting close to your edge, but I want to brag on you about this for a second because you are comfortable and being very brave, because I know that the majority of gynecologists are, first, they're afraid to talk about sex because they're not comfortable with their own sexuality. Number two, they don't understand how to treat sexual problems. Even though they might be amazing gynecologists, it wasn't part of their curriculum and new ideas have come along, and so they're not sure what to say. They're not comfortable saying it. So I just want to double brag on the fact that you're being very brave, not only just embracing these ideas. You're helping to think about them.

I've never asked you to think openly in public about this phenomenon, so if you want to decline the question, you can. But if you want to tackle it as a scientist, tell me what you think about it. And talk not as if you're talking to me. Talk as if you're talking to a woman who's wondering, "Is this a thing? Is it worth thinking about? Would the shot help me, and if so, tell me more about how to think about it."

Amy Brenner: Well, I don't think doctors are taught about sex, let alone female ejaculation, so I think that's an advanced topic.

Dr. Runels: And they're not getting the basics down.

Amy Brenner: Yeah. That's for the experts to talk about.

Dr. Runels: Well, maybe we should just skip it. We'll skip it. Let's see, what else can we talk about? You tell me. What else have you seen in the area of sexuality that on a daily basis you find frustrating, that you wish more women knew about? So you mentioned the hormone piece of it. Anything else along those lines? Maybe with relationships or medicine, any piece of it?

Amy Brenner: I think I've talked to you about this before. I think using the O-Shot and PRP for incontinence and dryness is just a chip shot. It's so easy, because there's not a lot of other factors that go into that. Either you notice that your dryness improves or it doesn't, and so using PRP and the O-Shot to treat those medical problems that, again, is something ... That conversation I have multiple times a day about treatment options for incontinence and treating for vaginal dryness, and it's so easy to treat those.

But I think it is a little bit more tricky to talk about sex and what goes into a good sex life and good orgasm, because although the O-Shot helps with the physical part with blood flow and nerves, there's just so many other components to that.

Dr. Runels: Yeah. I'm glad you brought that up, because we don't get everybody well, do we? What do you think is the most difficult problem to treat? I have an idea, but what do you think is really difficult to treat?

Amy Brenner: Well, just last week I saw somebody for a follow-up for the O-Shot and the first words out of her mouth were, "I don't think it works." And I'm like, "Okay, well, tell me more about that, because I know we're also wanting to help incontinence." And she's like, "Oh, yeah, that's better. I don't need the oxybutynin anymore. I don't even leak at all." And she's like, "And the dryness is better, but I've never been able to have a orgasm with my husband and I still can't."

Dr. Runels: Yeah.

Dr. Brenner: That part is out of my control.

Dr. Runels: Yes. What's the lab rate on that [inaudible 00:26:29]? Because that is one of the things. Although it happens, the women who have difficulty having orgasm with their lover's penis inside of them ... We don't have control over the lover, do we? What he knows or she knows about her lover's anatomy, how they're sensitive to it, and so we can't control that piece, can we?

Dr. Brenner: No.

Dr. Runels: But it does happen. But that's hard. I think the other one is the woman who's never had an orgasm in her life. I think it's more difficult to figure out how to help that one. There is this system. I like to keep reminding people there's an orgasm system. It involves everything you just said. The relationship, the lover, the lover's anatomy and understanding of her body, hormones. Tell me some more of the surgical things that you would think about from the surgeon that might cause problems when you have your surgeon hat on with sex.

Dr. Brenner: Yeah, I mean, certainly when somebody has a surgical menopause, that instantly takes their hormones to zero, so-

Dr. Runels: So if they have their ovaries taken out.

Dr. Brenner: Yeah, or even just a shortened vagina that can lead to pain with sex. Radiation for cancer, that can interfere with things, or even just childbirth and vaginal lacerations. I've seen women with scar tissue that ... Sometimes I examine them and I don't even know how they're having sex, let alone it's enjoyable, so I don't even know how they're doing it.

Dr. Runels: Okay.

Amy Brenner: Trauma. I mean, it's rare, but ...

Dr. Runels: What about ovarian cysts or fibroids? Do those interfere very much, because I'm not a surgeon, so I have [inaudible 00:28:28].

Dr. Brenner: [inaudible 00:28:31] pain.

Dr. Runels: Yeah, I've seen pain. I'm a big believer in surgery, actually. I think it's a natural treatment. I always tell women, "Well, after you pass about 35, I can probably do your hormones better than your ovaries can. And if you get them out, we don't have to keep worrying about ovarian cancer, and that one goes off the radar. And if you have a hysterectomy, we can quit thinking about cervical cancer." Although some women argue that the cervix has something to do with orgasm. What are your thoughts on that? 'Cause I'm still making up my mind on that.

Dr. Brenner: Yeah. I think that when you read about physiologically what happens to it when women get aroused and what happens with orgasm, certainly that's described, but that hasn't been my experience of women saying that everything changed when you take their cervix out. I do like to take women's cervix out when I do a hysterectomy because if you leave it in place, then 20 to 30 percent of the time, they still have bleeding. That's another physical [inaudible 00:29:37] that can interfere with sex, too. Somebody's bleeding all the time, they don't ... It's embarrassing. It's messy and ...

Dr. Runels: It's like they're still having their period.

Dr. Brenner: Yeah.

Dr. Runels: If you're gonna have a hysterectomy, why still put up with a menstrual period? I'm with you.

Dr. Brenner: Right. I mean, most people don't want to have a gynecological exam when they're bleeding, let alone be intimate with somebody when they're bleeding, so if somebody's bleeding for seven days out of the month, then you're like, "Okay, well, I'm not doing it that week, and this week I might have PMS," so you're down to ... Bleeding issues can also interfere, just 'cause ... embarrassing, and people don't like that.

Dr. Runels: Well, I see your sweet baby walking by, so I'm gonna let you go, but before I do I wanted to thank you. I consider you one of the top GYNs on the planet, and I consider myself blessed to know you and work with you and share ideas with you. Anything else you want to say about the celebration of Orgasm Day, or just anything else about what we're doing before you take off?

Dr. Brenner: Yeah. Everybody should have an orgasm on Orgasm Day.

Dr. Runels: That sounds fun. Okay, Doctor Brenner. You have a wonderful day. Bye-bye.

Dr. Brenner: Bye.

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Anorgasmia. The 4-Step Treatment Formula

Dr Charles Runels, (the "Orgasm Doctor") explains a "4-Step Treatment for Anorgasmia"...

Results May Vary. Discuss with Your Private Physician. Educational Only. Not a Substitute for Seeing a Physician...

Transcription of the Video ...

Hello. I'm Charles Runels. I'm a physician who has for over the past 25 years taken care of over 10,000 women, and I'm here to talk to you about what I consider to be a very serious, very disturbing problem that some women suffer with. Around one in 10 called anorgasmia, or anorgasmic. An as in no orgasm.So you might think, well, no orgasm. Not a big deal. You just don't get that pleasure, but you still have the pleasure of relationships, and you still have the pleasure of sex.

The problem is that research shows, and what I have seen, not just the research, but when I see women crying in front of me, saying, "I want, I love my husband dearly. My lover, he's my lover, he's my best friend, and we want to experience an orgasm together, but I've never had an orgasm in my life. I cannot have an orgasm, ever. Can't have one."

And that is really bothersome. It's not just bothersome because they're lacking the pleasure. They want that experience, and research shows that sexual dysfunction to the point to where it's distressing the woman, it makes her feel broken. Even though she might have a healthy body, she might be brilliant with her career, a wonderful wife and mother, still, that's a part of her psychology, part of her physical thing that's broken. It's like, it's an analogy, if you have a car, everything's perfect, but one window won't roll down. And that one thing is broken, and so the rest of the car is great, but that part is not working properly.

So maybe not a good analogy, but still, if you have a part of your psychology that's that important, and it's not just the pleasure part. We know that when people have an orgasm, there's a bond that takes place. There's an opening. There's even one research study that shows that men who are on a ship, as a, in the Navy, who are exposed only to men, by having an orgasm, some of them become ... They start having sex with men because that's all that's available, and by having orgasms with a man, they then become attracted to that man. There's a bonding that happens with an orgasm.

Whatever is presented to you when you have an orgasm, because there's this release of oxytocin and all these things happening with prolactin, and who knows what-all, because the pituitary gland makes over 200 hormones. 200. So when you go to your doctor, and they measure six or seven or eight or even 10 hormones, we're still really in kindergarten about what's going on here when there's sexual attraction, when there's sexual arousal, when there's an orgasm.

This is not the end of the world, but no orgasm is something to be taken very, very seriously. So what are the treatments for it. First of all, it is helpful to have at least an understanding. So a sex therapist, a sex educator, there's a wide variety of skillset and understanding here, and so this can be helpful.

There's a ... What I've seen with my patients and with my own personal life is that once a woman has an orgasm, it's sort of like if you go to the forest, and you see a path, if people are walking down the same area, the path becomes smooth. But before there's a path, it might be difficult to walk in an area where there's no path.

We now know there are neurological pathways that are associated with an orgasm, and what I've seen is that once a woman finds that, and she breaks through the brush of what's limiting her from having an orgasm, then the path becomes more open, and it becomes so much easier to have the second and the third, and by the time she's had several orgasms, it becomes easier and easier and easier. But getting to that first orgasm can be very frustrating. And to make it even more frustrating, trying to get there seems to limit the ability to get there.

So there needs to be a letting go and a surrender, which doesn't sound politically correct, but it has to be a surrender of the woman's body to the process of her body functioning in that way. Try to imagine urinating and trying to keep from urinating at the same time. It's another bodily function. To urinate or to defecate, you have to let it go. And again, it may not be the most glamorous analogy, but you can't let go and hold back at the same time.

Now a woman can drive herself mad trying to figure out how to let go and trying to get there at the same time, but that's where a therapist and certain exercises and educational processes that can be done with the woman and her lover that we aren't born knowing. These specialists are trained to help in that arena, and I highly recommend that you consider consulting with one who is licensed in this area. Not just some person, but someone who's properly trained and licensed.

Now, so how can we break through and get to that path. Another thing that's very, very important, and like I said, I've done research in this area. Over 25 years of taking care of women, and embarrassingly, too many lovers, and what I can tell you is that from seeing all this that it's very, very difficult for a woman to have arousal or orgasm without a hormone. And you might think it might be estrogen or progesterone. It's not. The main hormone for orgasm is without a doubt testosterone, and thankfully, due to Suzanne Somers and others who have made this more widely known. I'm very grateful to her, because doctors can do the research, but oftentimes it takes a celebrity to help make the public aware, and that's one of, I think, their great function, is that they have a wide audience, and they can help educate people.

And Suzanne Somers did a lot to educate people about how women need testosterone. The part of the vagina that's called the introitus, the part that you go as you ... So you have the labia on the outside. So if you're looking at a vagina, you got urethra and the labia minora and the labia majora and the clitoral hood, and right there is the vagina, okay?

Right here, this area here between the vagina and the labia minora, that is biologically exactly like the inside of the urethra of a man. So the inside of his penis, where the urine comes out, that is biologically the same as this tissue, and it is responsive to testosterone. Testosterone.

Another thing that happens is women on birth control pills, birth control pills, we know it. It's not a guess, it's not some of the time. It's a thing that's going to happen. If you pour water on you hand it will get wet. If you take birth control pills, a thing that will happen is your testosterone levels will fall.

The reason birth control pills work is it tricks your pituitary gland into not releasing the hormones that stimulate the ovary to make hormones because you don't ovulate. And so it stops that, but the woman doesn't have hot flashes, and she still has a menstrual period because the uterus is seeing the hormones that are coming from the birth control pills. All right? You with me?

So birth control pills tells the pituitary gland to quit talking to the ovary. So pituitary gland, here's pituitary gland up here. Here's the brain. Pituitary gland makes LH and FSH, and these go to the ovary and tell the ovary to make all these hormones. Estrogen and testosterone, all these things get made. DHEA. Things get made.

Now, when you take birth control pills, see, these feed back until, when they get at the right level, they tell the pituitary gland to quit making so much of this, so there's a feedback loop. Now, if you take estrogen or some progesterone-like material, and you feed it, and now the pituitary gland sees that, it thinks it's coming from the ovary, it cuts this off, and so the ovary shuts down, but guess what else turns off? So the ovary quits making so much estrogen because it's getting it from the birth control pill. So estrogen quits being made, but guess what else quits being made? Testosterone.

There's a little bit made from the adrenals and from the glands by the kidney, but much of the testosterone level gets cut back, and so that makes the woman not only more susceptible to weight gain and loss of sex drive and migraines, but it also makes her, sometimes there's actually a syndrome where they start to have pain with intercourse, and often it doesn't go away when she stops the birth control pills. That research has been done. And it can make some women more difficult to have an orgasm.

So a lot of ladies might start on birth control pills, say, for their acne, or they become ... Their menstrual periods are heavy and painful as a teenager, so they start on birth control pills, and in the process, this testosterone drops, and it can make it so the woman never is able to achieve an orgasm, not knowing that her testosterone level is low.

So testosterone is huge, and now that it can be measured, and what you should ask your doctor, to know if your doctor knows what he or she is doing, this is your test to see, they should measure free and total, or measure total, this is even more accurate, and calculate the free by also measuring testosterone binding globulin, or sex binding globulin, so and then they calculate the free.

Now you don't have to understand all that. All you need to know is this. Did your doctor measure your free testosterone level in some way, and if he or she did not, and you cannot have an orgasm, you should go back and ask your doctor to measure those levels, or ask your doctor to refer you to someone who both will measure them and know what to do with them. Your free testosterone levels should be in the upper 25% of normal, or you're going to have more difficulty with orgasm and libido more likely.

Doesn't mean lots of women with a low testosterone having crazy fun sex, but if you're having trouble, and you need to see if this can be corrected, because correcting it, I've seen over and over again can take a woman who's suffering with these problems, and now all of a sudden, she's having a crazy, ecstatic, and the word I hear a lot is exploding orgasms. Not exploding as in like a water balloon explodes and leaves the bedroom wet, but exploding like in your mind exploding, with a great ecstasy, and that comes about through testosterone.

There are receptors on the brain tissue for testosterone, in the brain for testosterone, and the brain remodels and becomes more erotic and more susceptible, or receptive, to both arousal and orgasm. So testosterone.

Now, how can ... So you've seen the therapist, preferably with your lover, and you're exploring some of the amazing exercises that they can teach you, and you're taking testosterone, but you still haven't found the path or created the path. And remember our analogy is you're in the forest, there's lots of brush, there's no pathway, and you have to break through the brush with your first orgasm. And now, once that neural pathway is made in your brain, you go down that path over and over and over again until it's well worn, and it becomes very easily to go down to this, through this path.

So what are other ways you can get to the path? Another was is with a vibrator. Now vibrators are not a new thing. Actually, ancient Greece, you can find where they had dildos. They weren't electrically powered. It wasn't till around the 1940s that we had electrical powered vibrators. Hamilton Beach actually started out, their first product was a vibrator.

So vibrators have been around a long time, and there's some things that make people, and I'm going to tell you in a second about what I think the best vibrator is to break through and find the path to the first orgasm. But let me tell you first of all another thing that can make the vibrator ... Become I get to the vibrator I think is best, let me tell you another thing that might help it work better, it as in your body.

So you got testosterone, you got a therapist, another thing is called our O-Shot, or orgasm shot, o for orgasm, or if you want to keep it G-rated, you can say o for orchid. Think about your labia like an orchid.

So or, o for orgasm. Orgasm shot. Say it. Orgasm. All right? It's easier to have an orgasm if you're able to say the word orgasm and not blush. If that makes you blush, practice saying that word. Orgasm, orgasm, orgasm. Okay?

Now, O-Shot for orgasm. All that I did, and I was the one to create this procedure, all that I did was say, okay, there's these process of taking platelets out of the blood stream and injecting them into [hartiel 00:14:20], like the knee, there's not a lot of blood flow in the knee or the cartilage of the knee, and so orthopedic surgeons, when they have an NFL football player, or veterinarians, when you have a million dollar racehorse, if you want to see what's working in medicine, you just look at how they take care of million dollar racehorses, or men who make 20 million dollars a year. If you miss a day of work, and you're making 20 million dollars a year, somebody is paying you, and they're losing millions of dollars.

So if you want to know what really works, look at what they do for NFL football players, and what they do to make them well from a knee injury is they take the blood out, they extract the platelets, and then they activate those platelets, and the platelets release these rejuvenating growth factors that tell the stem cells to grow new healthy tissue.

That's a mouthful, but if you want to know what that looks like, imagine when you scraped your knee as a child, there was this crusty yellow material there. It's called [inaudible 00:15:18] fiber matrix, and what that was, remember, you grew skin back. That told your body to grow the skin back. It didn't seal up. I grew new skin. That means blood flow, blood vessels, nerves, collagen, everything that makes up skin.

The growth factors that came from those platelets. There's over 20 of them we know about so far. Chemotactic factors that fight infection, you have, and it whistles for stem cells to come out of the bone marrow, migrate to the area, and then grow into that new tissue to skin. All right?

So it's not the platelets, it's what's in the platelets. So we always thought platelets and that scab was just to keep you from bleeding to death. Nope. It was not just to keep you from bleeding. It's like a balm, and embedded into that balm, that yellow goo that your mother told you not to pick at, but you did anyway, and that glue is these growth factors that were whistling and activating the stem, whistling for and activating the stem cells, and you grew new skin.

So back to the NFL football players. You can make that goo in five or ten minutes at the bedside by extracting your blood, just like you did when you get your blood drawn for tests at the laboratory to see if you're anemic or not, and then you put it in a syringe, and it's your body. It's your blood. No one's ever had a serious side effect ever from platelet-rich plasma, and there's been over 8,000 research papers done about platelet-rich plasma.

We published three so far about how this works with the vagina, but when you inject it, then what happens is the tissue of the vagina rejuvenates, and the nerves wake up, and the blood flow comes in, and the collagen grows, and it becomes healthier. And this alone, we've seen around 30%.

Now, here's the thing. We can get close to 100% for treating stress incontinence with the same shot, the O-Shot. We can get closer to 90% treating lichen sclerosus. For someone who has pain from a episiotomy or a tear from delivering a baby, close to 100%. But for a woman who's never had an orgasm, the O-Shot alone, it's about 30 or 40%, with that by itself. Just waking up the vagina.

But, so if we're still have close to 60% that the O-Shot is not working by itself, then we need other procedures. But I would include make sure that you see a therapist or an educator, that your testosterone, your free testosterone is in the upper 25th percentile, the upper one-fourth percentile, free is calculated by calculating sex binding globulin and total testosterone. If your doctor doesn't know how to do that, get referred to a doctor who does.

The O-Shot, now you have all this in place, get you a vibrator. If you want to start with a vibrator, that's fine too. But think about this as sort of a recipe for making the new path.

Now, here's the thing, and I'm going to tell you about the best vibrator, I think, for making an orgasm, and this is not from ... Obviously, I don't have a vagina, all right? I have a penis. So I don't know, but how I do know is 25 plus years of talking to women, over 10,000 of them in great detail and measuring their hormones and doing research and having them tell me what happens and how their marriage gets better, so this is not ... And also personal experience with lovers.

So this is not me making up something, and this works. It absolutely works, and it will change your life. All right? Back to the thing.

So this is the analogy, because here's how people go off track. They'll say, "Well, I got my testosterone fix, and that didn't work," as if that was the wrong thing. So why is it not a wrong thing if it didn't work.

Here's my favorite analogy for that. Suppose someone said, suppose you had never seen a fire in your life, and someone said, "Hey, you know what? To make a fire, you just need a match." And you went out, and you struck a match, and you got a little fire. It lasted a few seconds and went away, and you thought, "Uh. That didn't work very well. I don't have a fire. It just was there for a second, it's gone," and someone else says, "You know, to have a fire, what you need is a big stack of wood." And so you go throw a bunch of wood down, no fire. And someone says, "No. What you really need is some lighter fluid," and you go, and you squirt some lighter fluid around, and nothing happens. Well, you're getting the point, right?

And then finally, someone who knows the whole recipe says, "No, what you really need to do is, listen, you take the wood and you stack that up first. Then you put the lighter fluid, and then you put the match, and you'll get a fire."

So here's the thing. If you do one thing, and it doesn't work, as in doesn't work because you're not seeing the thing happen that you wanted to see happen, as in your first orgasm, breaking through the pathway, it doesn't mean that doesn't help. It just means you haven't found the rest of the recipe that what you need. And it could be that your testosterone level is out the roof, but maybe you have scar tissue from delivering a baby, and so the nerves are damaged. A mid-urethral sling. Now we know those slings you put to help with incontinence, I'm not saying that should never be done, but I can tell you research shows that that interferes with sensation to your clitoris. It can in many women damage the nerve supply to the clitoris. Well, that O-Shot helps grow the nerves back.

So back to this recipe. If you do a thing, and it doesn't give you the result, it doesn't mean the thing doesn't work. Keep doing that thing. Like, if you put down the wood, and you don't get a fire, it doesn't mean you don't use the wood, let's keep the wood there, and let's figure out what we need to add to that to make a fire. This, in my opinion, is a pretty good recipe that would cure almost all women and help them find and orgasm.

But if you could leave, you could possibly leave any one of these things out and still not get it. Like, I could put wood and lighter fluid, still not get a fire. I could put a match and lighter fluid and no wood, and I would have a fire for a few seconds, and it would go away. But if I want a blazing, you know, roast marshmallows fire and have sex by the fire with my lover, I need wood, lighter fluid, and a match. I need all three. And in my opinion, this is your recipe to have an orgasm, all right?

So the O-Shot, you can read about elsewhere on the O-Shot website. The testosterone, I just told you what you need. The sex therapist or family therapist. You need someone who's licensed that doesn't blush that can talk with you and your lover and help you find exercises you can do, and now, what's my favorite vibrator to help people find an orgasm?

Now, vibrators are personal, and remember, I don't have a vagina, so I'm reporting to you from what I've heard from my patients, and not just my patients. We now have over 1,000 doctors in 41 countries that I've helped train, or people I've trained have trained, to use platelet-rich plasma for the O-Shot and some other procedures that I've created.

So this is, what I'm about to tell you about this vibrator is from patients, it's from lovers, and it's from other doctors around the globe. New Zealand, Taiwan, India, France, Spain, Canada, Mexico, the US, Hawaii, Alaska, and other places. We have physicians in all those places that do the O-Shot, and I'm learning from them as well. Multiple universities. So just want you to know this is not something I'm making up.

So here's my favorite vibrator now. It may change if something better comes out. Here's the best one. So it's an Intensity, and when you take it out of the box, you have a nice little bag here that you can keep it in, and it comes with instructions. You won't really, you can read them, but you won't really need that after I show you what you do.

So, comes wrapped up in plastic, and if you've never used a vibrator before ... The other thing. Wow, that's a scary looking thing, and I don't even know what's going to happen when my children find that on the bedside table. So I don't know. You have to hide it I guess. But eventually, when they get old enough, you'll just have to tell them what it is, right? It's actually been shown that the sooner you talk about sex with your children, the less, the more likely they are to have a healthy sex relationship. So what I would recommend as a guide is when they ask a question, that's when they're ready to hear the answer. So you give them an answer as they ask the question and make it safe for them to talk with you.

So here's the way this works. These little electrodes here, can you zoom in on that? So these metal electrodes here act like a [inaudible 00:24:20] unit, but not to cause tingling. They actually cause an electrical current that causes muscle contraction. So another thing that can help you find an orgasm is to do Kegal exercises to both stimulate, exercise, and become aware of some of the muscles of orgasm. But you can't do a Kegal on your uterus, which also contracts when you have an orgasm.

What this does, there's a lot of women, they think they're doing Kegals, but they're really not. This, because this causes the muscles to contract, it makes you use the muscles you would normally do when you have an orgasm. Kind of fun, right? So this gel is to make contact with that. So you put a little bit of the gel on here, just a dab, about like that. Just enough to sort of cause it to make contact, okay? You put that on both sides. You don't need a lot of it. This is not a lubricant. This is not to lubricate your vagina. You could use a different lubrication if you want. This is a contact gel to make it so that there's electrical, passage of electrical activity from the device into the tissue.

So then, what you do ... Actually, the way to think about what this does, if you've ever seen those ads in the magazines where you're supposed to be able to put a little, stick a little wire on you, and it makes your muscles jump, and instead of having to go to the gym, it exercises for you. Well, it really does make the muscles jump. And that's what this does. It teaches your vagina muscles to jump.

And so you can set the rhythm of that here, and then it also functions as a vibrator. And this little thing called a rabbit, this goes onto the clitoris, and these top two, it's like a three-pronged hand, like this. And the top two go sort of under the clitoral hood, and the clitoris would fit right in there like that. So that pushes the clitoral hood back, and then this third little thumb finger goes on the clitoris itself, and what's going to happen is you'll have your little clitoris sitting in there like that, with these two going under the hood, sort of hold the hood back. And so now you have all three of those little fingers wrapped around the clitoris like that. Isn't that cool?

So that's the way it'll be, so this is clitoris, these are those three little fingers. The clitoral hood would be on top of these fingers like that. Beautiful, beautiful.

Now this is vibrating, this is making your muscles. Now it has a little thing here to pump this up. You can see when I pump that, it gets bigger, like that, and when I push this black button, it deflates it.

So you would pump that up to make contact with the vaginal wall. See that? And this would deflate it. So it's going to go in like this, and you can see the length of this would be, if your husband's worried that you're going to fall in love with your vibrator, husband, if you're there listening, let me talk with you for a second. What's going to happen here, obviously this right here, most people have an erection that's, you know, at least this big. So it's not like this is going to be suddenly a replacement for your penis. The other thing that's going to happen is, you'll find that as your lover learns to not be an or without orgasm, but becomes orgasmic.

She's not going to fall in love with this. What this does is once this helps her break through the brush, and now she has a path that she can go through and down. Once that happens, [inaudible 00:28:11], once that happens, now it becomes easy for her to find the path, and this can go away, or it could be something that you bring out sometimes.

So this can be a toy. She can be using this while you kiss her. You can be fondling her breast. You know, she can be using this while she's giving you fellatio. There's all sorts of scenarios where this becomes part of the bedroom scene, but don't worry. She won't leave you for this, and I can promise you, if you become accepting and encouraging about anything that is not dangerous, but yet leads to better health and better relations, even if she has an orgasm from this while she is kissing you, she won't fall in love with this. She will fall in love with your face if you're kissing her while she has an orgasm with that, and she will come to associate you with that orgasm, and the path will become easier to find and easier to follow, the neurological pathway up here, and it will come to where she can have the orgasm with you and without that. All right?

So this becomes a pleasurable tool, but it also becomes more importantly a therapeutic method to help all these things work better so you find a deeper relationship. So it's called an Intensity, and I hope you make it part of your metabolic, psychological bonding way to find a deeper relationship.

I've found, you know, I worked in the emergency room for 12 years. I've saved lots of lives, but I've found nothing more rewarding that saving the relationship of two people in love with each other or helping someone find healing, even if she's just loving herself.

Lots of women have come to us who have O-Shots who live alone. Sexuality is very empowering, and there's nothing that says that having an orgasm has to be about a man and a woman. It's okay for a woman to find sexual energy that then she uses for ... Rainer Maria Rilke talked about it being important for the creative process.

Napoleon Hill talked about it being important in his Think and Grow Rich book, about sexual energy helps people make more money or be more creative in their business endeavors.

Emerson called sex and beauty the scaffolding of love.

So a woman can be in love with herself and should be in love with herself, and it's okay for her to make love to herself, whether it's learning how to have an orgasm this way, or after she's learned, having an orgasm this way, and I hope that you'll contact us if we can help you further. Contact the physicians if you get an O-Shot. You should make sure, make sure, sure, sure that they are listed as one of our certified providers.

We've become very, very popular, and a lot of doctors, for some reason, either because of ill-intent or not, just unknowingly, they'll advertise as if they're in our provider group when they're not, and they're using kits that were not FDA approved for preparing plasma. They don't understand where we're putting that plasma, and it's very offensive. It can hurt women tremendously. I don't like it. I spend a lot of money on lawyers to shut them down, but still, they're out there, so before you see someone for an O-Shot, even if they're combining it with another device, like a laser, or ThermiVa, or radio frequency device. If they're putting plasma into your vagina, you should make sure they're listed as one of our certified provided, or what you're getting may not be good plasma, and it may be getting put in the wrong place. So be careful with that.

But consult our certified providers at O-Shot. OShot.info, and I'll put links to all this below, links to about the testosterone, links to therapists, links to where to get this vibrator, links to where to find certified providers, and again, thank you very much. This is precious, precious, sacred, sacred, very important material, and the fact that you have an interest in my ideas is very humbling, and I'm honored, and I hope you will contact us, us as in our organization and me personally, you'll let me know how this helps you and your relationship with yourself and with your lover.

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