Let’s Talk Vaginas With Cindy Barshop, Dr. Carolyn Delucia, MD, FACOG, & Olivia


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Olivia: Are we good? Are we going? Hey guys! Olivia here with another episode of Distractify Live or Daily Dose of Useful Distraction. I'm here with Cindy Barshop who you might recognize from the Real Housewives of New York City, but we're here for an entirely different reason. She's the founder of VSPOT Medispa. Did I get that right?

Cindy Barshop: Correct.

Olivia: VSPOT Medispa.

Cindy Barshop: The fountain of youth for your vagina.

Olivia: The fountain of youth for your vagina. We're here to talk about vaginas. Woo!

Cindy Barshop: Woo hoo!

Olivia: I guess why did you start this?

Cindy Barshop: I started it because of my own personal problem and I really believe in sexuality and feeling good about yourself. This whole place is, sorry men, not for you, but it's about women-

Olivia: Sorry, Michael.

Cindy Barshop: And feeling good about yourself, having orgasms just, like a man does. As you get older, and I'm not talking that much older. Not my age older, but like 35 older. Lubrication, tightening. If you had a baby, it gets a little smaller. Friction. It's all about the women enjoying sex more, which is good for you guys, too, because then we want it more.

Olivia: Women watching and men that are watching, please ask your questions, like and share this video on Facebook. We want everyone to get their questions out there about sexual health, about vaginal rejuvenation, and then we have a little fun thing that we did today that we could talk about.

Cindy Barshop: Okay, good.


Olivia: First of all, let me just say why are vaginas and sex such a taboo subject to talk about and why are you okay with talking about it?

Cindy Barshop: I'm here to make sure other women talk about that because the more we talk about it, the more we could get it out there for everybody. It's not a taboo subject. Feeling good about yourself? That should not be taboo. And taking care of yourself right now by doing the femilift and all these different treatments, you're making yourself feel good and healthy. It's like doing a million kegels. How many years have they talked about kegels? Even my grandmother-

Olivia: My mom taught me about kegeling when I was, like, 15.

Cindy Barshop: The whole world doesn't know how to kegel, but now-

Olivia: Kegeling is important.

Cindy Barshop: Kegeling's important. Okay, but you could do one million kegels in one minute with this treatment. Oo, ding.

Olivia: Oops. You mentioned the femilift.

Cindy Barshop: Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Olivia: You do this at the Medispa.

Cindy Barshop: Yes.

Olivia: Tell everyone what the femilift is.

Cindy Barshop: Basically, what I was talking about before is it's actually regenerating tissue to make it healthy inside your body. It's like doing the 50 million kegels in five minutes. If you have any problem with dryness, which you may say, "Oh, I'm fine," but you could be better. If there's anything with, "Oops, I peed in my pants because I laughed so much."

Olivia: It happens.

Cindy Barshop: Which is very normal. And if you want to get a little more friction when you're in the bedroom, you come in. No pain, no downtime, no risk.

Olivia: Really nice. Then, something that we both shared in today.

Cindy Barshop: [crosstalk 00:02:43] I gave you what?

Olivia: I received an orgasm today, and so did you.

Cindy Barshop: Yes, I did. We did it together.

Olivia: Yeah, we did it together. If you go to Distractify Snapchat, I documented my entire experience and Cindy's experience with the O Shot. Talk about what the O Shot is.

Cindy Barshop: Okay. A lot of times women orgasm, but it takes a long time to orgasm or none of us orgasm while we're having sex. We have to kind of a little rubbing here and there. With this, it allows you to orgasm quickly, but not too quickly, and allows you to kind of intensify it, and then there's some women who really don't have great orgasms. Basically, what we're doing is we're taking your own blood, platelet rich plasma.

Olivia: Right here.

Cindy Barshop: How come I didn't get a bandaid?

Olivia: You must've [crosstalk 00:03:26].

Cindy Barshop: Anyway, straight from there. It's injected into the hood, which we learned today.

Olivia: The hood.

Cindy Barshop: And the g-spot, and it actually pushes it out. It's all good.

Olivia: There's no pain involved, which I experienced today. I thought it was important to get the shot myself to talk about it and make sure that everyone knows it's not a lie. There's no pain involved. I felt nothing. I felt pressure, but normal pressure.

Cindy Barshop: You know I had no pain.

Olivia: Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: I have the world renowned gynecologist, Dr. Caroline Delucia.

Olivia: Okay.

Cindy Barshop: She is a specialist in women's sexual health. Show your face, please.

Olivia: Come in here, say hi to everyone.

Cindy Barshop: Hi. She just did the [crosstalk 00:04:04].

Dr. Delucia: Hi.

Cindy Barshop: She did it with us.

Olivia: She's been really busy today with our vaginas.

Cindy Barshop: And everybody else's.

Olivia: Thank you.

Dr. Delucia: My pleasure.

Olivia: If you have any questions, make sure to ask, ladies, about VSPOT, about the O Shot. There's probably a lot of frequently asked questions that you get all the time.

Cindy Barshop: Yeah, there's tons of them. One, does it hurt, or am I going to be orgasming when I'm walking? No, you're not. Is it healthy, is there any downside, or any risk? There's no risk. You're using your own blood, but I will tell you this. Make sure you go to a gynecologist to get it done who's been certified by Dr. Delucia because she trains everybody. It makes a difference. You're not going to go to a, I don't know, any doctor club. This is what I get sometimes. Can I say this?

Olivia: Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: How much is it? Really? How much is it? We're talking about the best in the world.

Olivia: The best ever. How much is it?

Cindy Barshop: Too much for you, then. For the O Shot, it's 2500.

Olivia: It's totally worth it. I already love it. I already love it, so I'm gonna keep everyone posted and tell everyone what I think of my experience with the O Shot.

Cindy Barshop: Good, you should.

Olivia: I guess what stages of life do you see women in here?

Dr. Delucia: All stages.

Olivia: All stages?

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely. Someone young like yourself who just wants good to be better, and there's no harm in that. Really it just magnifies the pleasure that you can derive from [crosstalk 00:05:30].

Cindy Barshop: A lot of moms.

Dr. Delucia: A lot of moms.

Cindy Barshop: Lots of moms. That's a big thing. Mostly it's either your age who like the better sex, unless there's a little problem and they don't lubricate enough.

Olivia: Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: Well, not even looking for more. Increased desire increases relationships, I think. You have no choice

Olivia: I feel like men are probably a really big fan of this, as well.

Cindy Barshop: Of course.

Olivia: It helps relationships.

Cindy Barshop: The pleasure. Wait a minute-

Dr. Delucia: Exactly.

Cindy Barshop: Think about taking the pill. Every guy out there, you should buy your girlfriend an orgasm in a box for the holidays. You know why?

Olivia: I received an orgasm today and I know a lot of men would probably like it if their women also experienced an orgasm.

Cindy Barshop: It takes the pressure off.

Olivia: It's a lot less pressure.

Cindy Barshop: A lot less work. It feels better for the woman.

Olivia: You guys, ask your questions about vaginas. We're here to talk about vaginas. How many times can I say vagina in one video?

Cindy Barshop: Never enough.

Olivia: Please like and share this if you're interested in vaginas or if you're interested in what VSPOT is doing. How can people find VSPOT/-

Cindy Barshop: They can just go online. VSPOT Medi, M-E-D-I, Spa, S-P-A, or call, or call!

Olivia: Call.

Cindy Barshop: Call 1-800. Wait, I don't even know. 408-VSPOT. That's it?

Olivia: Oh, I have it. Here.

Cindy Barshop: Oh right.

Olivia: We'll put it on the comments section below with the website, since no one can remember a random phone number. I do want to say I don't want women to come here because they feel like they are not good enough in bed or this is their problem.

Cindy Barshop: Thank you for bringing it up. It's about empowering women. It's about empowering women to take control of your life and your sexuality to make sure you feel good. There's no reason. How many times, let's be honest, we're like, "Oh, you're great." That's the truth. How many times ... Have you ever done it, said, "You're great,"?

Olivia: Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: No, everybody's gonna be great. But then, there's also-

Olivia: Everyone's so great.

Cindy Barshop: I know, but then everyone's gonna be good. It's gonna be like, "Oh." No, no. The other thing is we really do help women, especially moms who've gone through the child birth. Nothing bounces back. This is simple, it's painless, it's not surgery. This technology has caught up right now. We don't have to kegel anymore. I'm not saying don't exercise, but take care of something that's so important in your life.

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely.

Olivia: I'm kegeling right now.

Cindy Barshop: You don't have to kegel anymore.

Olivia: Well, I am, just-

Dr. Delucia: Just because it's fun because it feels really good right now.

Olivia: Can you tell? Random question. I'm comparing my vagina, the surgery ... Not the surgery, the procedure that I just did, like I'm a vampire and I just sucked my blood into my vagina.

Dr. Delucia: Yes.

Olivia: That's kind of ... I'm trying to put it into non medical terms for people.

Dr. Delucia: The vampire vagina.

Olivia: The vampire vagina.

Cindy Barshop: The guy who started it, right? With the vampire facial. It's the same idea.

Dr. Delucia: That's right, Dr. Charles Runels. Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: You're taking your own blood and you're putting it in your vagina.

Dr. Delucia: Yes.

Cindy Barshop: I like that, the VSPOT Vampire Vagina.

Olivia: Vampire Vagina. What kind of testimonials have you heard from women who have come in and gotten either the femilift, or the O spot?

Cindy Barshop: Can I say [inaudible 00:08:30]?

Dr. Delucia: Please.

Cindy Barshop: I have to tell you, this is one of the best businesses I've ever been in because it makes me feel good when they come back and they basically say, "You changed my life." If you can't have sex, and you're not lubricated enough, and you're not orgasming, and now you are, think about it. It really, really makes you feel good.

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely. The whole thing about these procedures is that it's away of women being able to voice their desires in their own female sexual health to improve their participation in intimacy. I think that we all should enjoy it, and we shouldn't have to fake it, and we should be able to really feel fantastic. When that happens, everyone's happier in that moment.

Olivia: Yes.

Cindy Barshop: I'll say one thing.

Olivia: Yeah, what?

Cindy Barshop: I did it, right, for incontinence because I used to pee a little in my pants.

Olivia: She pees, she pees.

Cindy Barshop: Think about this. Just think about a scenario. I couldn't wear a skirt when I went out, I couldn't wear silk because, oops, how embarrassing is that. When I worked out, I had to wear a pad.

Olivia: I almost told a really embarrassing story of my mom's just now, but I'm gonna keep it locked, but it involved peeing. [crosstalk 00:09:38]

Cindy Barshop: As you get older, peeing doesn't seem like the same thing. After you have a baby-

Olivia: Michael, stop.

Cindy Barshop: When you have parents who are older, all you do is talk about what comes out of the body.

Olivia: It's always, it's always.

Cindy Barshop: Thank god we're only on the pee level.

Olivia: Reminder, we're at VSPOT Medispa. I've along with Cindy, the founder, just got the O Shot and I've had five orgasms just sitting here. Just kidding, but it is national chocolate chip cookie day and I might eat a cookie and, whoop, there it goes. Okay.

Cindy Barshop: Who's going to be eating the cookie? Where are you gonna put the cookie? I didn't mean it ... I did mean it like that.

Olivia: In my vagina. Okay. Will there ever be a P Shot for men?

Dr. Delucia: There is a P Shot for men.

Olivia: Michael!

Dr. Delucia: It's called the Priapus Shot and it works miraculously. Again, we draw blood, we spin it down, we take the platelet rich plasma, and we inject it directly into the penis, painlessly at that.

Olivia: Painlessly.

Dr. Delucia: Once again, it works on erectile tissue. It's for magnifying erections, making them stronger, better, more durable, things like that. They can help men with premature ejaculation and just the effectiveness of their erection.

Olivia: This is amazing.

Dr. Delucia: It's fantastic.

Olivia: If anyone has any questions for these professionals or just [inaudible 00:10:58] now, I'd be happy to answer from a personal perspective. If not, we have rapid fire coming on.

Cindy Barshop: What's rapid fire?

Olivia: Rapid fire is my favorite part, and I think everyone's favorite part. Don't take this too serious, okay? Let's have fun.

Cindy Barshop: Okay, go.

Olivia: We're gonna have fun. Okay. You can both answer, whatever. Favorite sex position?

Cindy Barshop: 69.

Olivia: 69?

Dr. Delucia: Mine?

Olivia: Yes.

Dr. Delucia: Probably me on top.

Olivia: You on top? Woo! Yes, queens. I like it from behind. Your least favorite sex position?

Cindy Barshop: Blow jobs. That's embarrassing.

Dr. Delucia: Is that a sex position?

Olivia: I-

Cindy Barshop: I don't know. I was just thinking about sex, what comes to my head first. That's what came to it.

Olivia: Blow jobs. She doesn't like them.

Cindy Barshop: I'm not into.

Olivia: If they had the P Shot maybe, though.

Cindy Barshop: Yeah.

Olivia: Maybe then. Least favorite, okay we did that. Favorite type of vibrator or do you like vibrators?

Cindy Barshop: I'm beginning to love vibrators.

Olivia: Yeah?

Cindy Barshop: I have [inaudible 00:11:57]. Honestly, [inaudible 00:12:01]. It looks like the [inaudible 00:12:02]. I wish I had it.

Olivia: Where is it?

Cindy Barshop: It's in the other room.

Olivia: Okay.

Cindy Barshop: Wait, this is the coolest thing. We actually had this vibrator [inaudible 00:12:11]. It's to help with urinary incontinence, but it also has a rabbit on it. Then, it has this micro current. I'm telling you, I orgasm internally with it.

Olivia: Really?

Cindy Barshop: I'll give you one.

Olivia: I'll take one. I want to [inaudible 00:12:24].

Dr. Delucia: I took one.

Olivia: Woo! Best piece of advice for women struggling to orgasm besides getting-

Cindy Barshop: Besides getting the shot? I would say kegel, use a lot of vibrators, and know where your spot is.

Dr. Delucia: Yeah, learn your own body. I think that's the biggest thing is don't be shy in exploring and experimenting. I think that women need to be comfortable to do that. Once they figure that out, they can guide their partner in doing the same.

Olivia: Yes.

Cindy Barshop: Let's not make a joke of it. I don't believe in the whole mirror thing, look in a mirror and all that. I don't believe in that.

Dr. Delucia: Oh no.

Olivia: I've never done that.

Cindy Barshop: Okay, good.

Olivia: That's not ... yeah. Estimate how many orgasms have you faked in your lifetime.

Cindy Barshop: Oh, god. I mean, I can't count it.

Olivia: Like, I can't. It's so many.

Cindy Barshop: No, I've pretty much faked it with everybody I've been with at one point.

Olivia: Could you win an Emmy for your-

Cindy Barshop: No.

Olivia: Can you fake one right now?

Dr. Delucia: Cindy Barshop faking an orgasm.

Olivia: Cindy Barshop fakes an orgasm on Facebook Live.

Dr. Delucia: I suck at that.

Cindy Barshop: Come on, come on. Imagine you're fucking some [inaudible 00:13:36].

Olivia: Alright, alright. It's the shot, it's the shot. We're getting [crosstalk 00:13:42].

Cindy Barshop: [crosstalk 00:13:43] in this?

Olivia: Yeah, we do it all the time.

Cindy Barshop: Okay.

Olivia: True or false ... Oh, actually we already did that. True or false, woman on top is the best way to orgasm.

Dr. Delucia: Yes, it is.

Cindy Barshop: Really?

Olivia: Yes.

Dr. Delucia: Yes.

Olivia: Okay.

Dr. Delucia: Yeah, because we're in control. We can control the depth of penetration, plus the amount of friction necessary. That's why.

Cindy Barshop: Really?

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely.

Olivia: Everyone out there, ladies, let's try living on top tonight, huh?

Dr. Delucia: If you haven't tried it, it's liberating.

Olivia: Okay, this is true or false and I hate this kind of stereotype. If her vagina is loose, she's been around the block.

Cindy Barshop: False.

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely false. Absolutely false. No. There is no correlation and there's no way to tell. Looseness. Matter of fact, a woman who's truly aroused will be pretty loose. That just means maybe he's doing his job.

Olivia: Good job dudes, but don't judge her if it's loose.

Dr. Delucia: Exactly, exactly.

Olivia: Just take pride, take pride.

Dr. Delucia: Enjoy it, enjoy it. Exactly.

Olivia: Okay, last true or false. Your vagina looks the same for your whole life.

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely false.

Cindy Barshop: False.

Olivia: False.

Dr. Delucia: False.

Cindy Barshop: Sorry.

Dr. Delucia: We go through changes. Does our face look the same throughout our entire life?

Olivia: Certainly not.

Dr. Delucia: Therefore, it helps ... And do men's genitalia look the same their whole life?

Olivia: No.

Cindy Barshop: No.

Dr. Delucia: Neither does [crosstalk 00:14:58].

Cindy Barshop: But we can make it look pretty without surgery.

Dr. Delucia: Absolutely, we can-

Cindy Barshop: [crosstalk 00:15:01] the surgery.

Dr. Delucia: Yeah.

Olivia: Okay, this is a question for you. You don't have to answer. Will you be showing up on the Real Housewives of New York.

Cindy Barshop: I don't know.

Dr. Delucia: She doesn't know.

Cindy Barshop: You mean this year?

Olivia: Whenever.

Cindy Barshop: I think I'm on it next week.

Olivia: Okay, well everyone [inaudible 00:15:17].

Cindy Barshop: [inaudible 00:15:19].

Olivia: I was a big fan and then I met her and I was like, "You're the coolest human being alive." Is there anything I forgot about VSPOT?

Cindy Barshop: No, I think she covered it. I love you. I think you're awesome.

Olivia: I love you guys.

Cindy Barshop: I think you're fun.

Olivia: I love vaginas.

Dr. Delucia: I think [crosstalk 00:15:34].

Olivia: I think we should do-

Cindy Barshop: Wait a minute, you love vaginas and-

Olivia: I mean-

Cindy Barshop: Lets clarify the line vagina.

Olivia: I love the fact that we are empowering women to love their vaginas.

Dr. Delucia: Yes!

Olivia: That was what I meant to say.

Dr. Delucia: I think that's wonderful.

Olivia: We're going to put the link to your website and the phone number in the comments section. Ladies, if you are too shy to comment or whatever, this is in New York City where?

Cindy Barshop: Call and we can answer all your questions. Honestly, this should feel good and comfortable.

Olivia: Yeah.

Cindy Barshop: I would pretty much answer the phone 50% of the time, so you could get me and we'll talk about it.

Olivia: Maybe I'll be here getting something else.

Cindy Barshop: We're always together.

Olivia: Because I love coming to you.

Cindy Barshop: We've become BFFs.

Olivia: Yeah. Oh my gosh, I got my O Shot today and it was the best experience, pain free, and amazing. Loved it and I can't wait to have some orgasms while I'm eating cookies today because it might happen. [inaudible 00:16:30] have an orgasm today.

Dr. Delucia: Cookie day?

Olivia: Today, I might. Go follow on Snapchat @distractify because I'm going to be live snapping the Drake and Future concert. We'll be back tomorrow at 2:30-